Recently, I’ve been thinking about and talking about
paths, not just the paths that you drive on your go for a walk on, but the
paths of our choices. When you think
about it, every choice is a path. Each
choice you make sends you in a direction that ultimately has a
destination.
The challenge becomes trying to choose the right
paths. And in a world full of many
voices directing us to many conflicting paths, it can be very difficult to know
that you have chosen the path that will take you where you want to go.
As adults if we struggle to find the right paths and
make the right choices, how much more difficult must it be for our children who
are young and inexperienced. They look
to us to see how to navigate different situations and experiences. They watch how we handle our emotions and how
we react to the many difficult circumstances we experience.
So it’s critical that not only we discover how to
choose the right paths, but that we also help our children end up in the places
they want to be in life. This can be
very difficult to accomplish. But it is
not impossible. All too often we forget
that we have been given tools to help us end up on the right paths.
If you’ve ever been camping, or been on a hike then
maybe you’ve found that compass can be a helpful tool when you aren’t sure if
you’re headed in the right direction.
A compass is
an instrument used for navigation and orientation that magnetically points
north. It doesn’t need any batteries to
work and it’s not something that is prone to “user error”, it simply always
points north.
God has given us a tool that can help us navigate
life successfully. And when we use it we
can be confident that we will avoid any unnecessary heartache and pain. God desires for us to experience the best of
life and that only happens when we accept Him as the ultimate authority in our
lives.
Too often we view freedom and authority as opposing
concepts. But the Bible teaches that true freedom is found under authority.
This principle focuses on our need to recognize God’s ultimate authority and
respect the other authorities He has placed over us.
Paul says in Romans 12:1-2
Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in
view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to
God—this is your true and proper worship. Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be
transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then
you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and
perfect will.
We believe that it is crucial to help
your child discover God and His word as the ultimate authority in their lives. It is vital to teach them that even in a
world full of advice and suggestions on which path is the best to take, God’s
way is always the best we. We need to help our kids understand
that maximum freedom is found under
God’s authority.
This truth is something that they will
first learn through watching us practice it and live it out in our homes, in
our schools, in our churches, and in our communities. It’s time to quit worrying about what anyone
else says and start focusing on what God says in every area of our lives. When that happens, we will know we are on all
the right paths.
Well written Devin! As I am teaching the Book of Proverbs to my children and 6th through 8th graders at Marvelous Monday, your blog made me smile. Thank you for you inspiration.
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